Tuesday, March 4, 2008

The Trial: The Nepali Translation

Sorry I've not posted. Each day I hope for good news to write but there is none yet. We have fallen into a Nepali beauracratic black hole. WE have not made any progress in our adoption. The people who arrived with us have all finished and most have left to go home.

What is the problem you may ask. Well, for a week we have been told there is no problem. That our file will be signed. It was a technical error that it was not signed and they will sign. They want to sign we are told but they do not. Everyday we are told the same thing. They want to sign the file, they will sign the file but they have not signed the file. It is maddening. Finally we have been in contact with the US Embassy and they believe they can and will resolve the issue.

For the most part we have been stuck at the hotel waiting for phone calls. Unable to travel anywhere really. It is a lovely hotel with a nice garden but has become our prison in a sense. We are coping as well as to be expected. Living in one room with your family is not easy. When in the room we watch Nick jr. Ben does not seem to mind that the same show comes on in English, then Nepali and then sometimes in Japanese. We've seen alot of British children's programming and I can only say it explains a lot about their national psyche. Very disturbing stuff. I have to admit I'm really missing Spongebob. He only comes on once a day here, while some boring Japanese character is on like 6 times a day. I'm going to write to their program director.

WE find joy in small things. Such as tonight we talked about all the uses we had for the small piece of aluminum foil we had saved. Mark thought we could build a house with it. It is amazing all the uses we can find for empty water bottles. Really why do we throw them away in the US when they make such great toys. There are a thousand games you can play with them. Well until you begin to bang on the table and your sister.

Sarina has learned to say bye-bye and up but still no Mommy. Although today she farted, which always means a diaper change, and she lifted her arms and ran right to me. I told her to go to Daddy who's name she says all day.

WE miss you all and hopefully we will have good news tomorrow. Which will be yesterday for you I think. I"m not sure anymore. I'm so confused. Anyway the Embassy is on the case and we can understand what they are saying. So at least we have that going for us even if we don't like what they say.

6 comments:

musing said...

OMG!! I feel for you and I am so glad that some how you can always make lemonaid out of lemons.
You are and have always been a special girl.
Hope the embasy gets things taken care of soon.
Just do not reuse the water bottles for drinking out of, they how say the leach some chemical that can be harmfu, so wait until next week when they change their "minds" again.
Hang in there, and kiss everyone for me.
Dad wants to know if there is anything we can do from this end?
I know better but promised I would ask you.

Kath' Aama said...

Ke garne indeed... Well that sucks. I sure hope this gets resolved before you feel compelled to hit someone about that Japanese cartoon. Maybe you could get the lama to plea for you, perhaps in exchange for Tiger.

Anonymous said...

Love you, prayer for you all every day.I'm glad you did take Ben with you. At least all your worries are in the same place!
Caryn

Anonymous said...

My prayers to continue for your strength and peach and power from the Embassy! A roller coaster--thank you for holding on tight! The mission is hard but you know that the reward is GREAT....
Love to your precious ones,
Glo

Anonymous said...

Sister #1
Our prayers are with you each and every day. Now we have specifics to pray about. Keep posting so we can keep up to date.

Please let us know if there is ANY thing that we can do.
love ya
Cheryl

Daughter #4 said...

How maddening! our thoughts and prayers are with you and we look forward to the time you are all home and this portion of the adventure is all but forgotten. Only the good memories will remain.

Besides, the weather here in the Midwest is horrid, anyways! Rain followed by sub-zero temps, then snow, then melting, then more rain, then more freezing temps. No sun hardly at all. It's not fit for man nor beast outdoors here-the world is one big ice-skating rink around here! My yard is so icy, the dogs can hardly walk back there. (it's pretty comical, actually, to watch them try).

Hope that cheers you up some to know you'd be almost just as cooped up here as you are there.